Het ontslag-seizoen gaat beginnen
11 • 03 • 2009 Categorie: Irritatie
Vanochtend in de krant dat CAP gaat reduceren, nadat eerder Ordina dat ook al had aangekondigd. Gaat dat daar dan zo?
Hier wat tips hoe je niet moet reageren van Dumblittleman:
- Don't fall apart
Keep your chin up and take the news like an adult. Sure you'd like to cry on the spot, beg the boss for your job, or slide him a blank check to reconsider the whole situation but it just makes you look like a liability and it confirms that firing you is the right move. Plus, that approach didn't work when you got passed up for promotion, why would it work now? No crying, sobbing, begging or bribing. Keep your composure and emotions in check.
- Don't go down swinging
This isn't a personal attack; it's just business. Don't turn the situation into a confrontation and don't ever make it physical or bring in other uninvolved parties like coworkers or security. It's bad enough you are unemployed you don't need to be involved in a police investigation. Plus, your boss could probably take you in one punch. You don't want to be fired AND embarrassed.
- Don't sink the entire ship
Don't rat on your friends and coworkers and don't start pointing fingers. Remember that former coworkers are also potential contacts for future employment. John from accounting isn't going to hook you up with a name at his brother's company if you tell the boss he is busy updating his Twitter page all day.
- Don't turn to sabotage
Once you are out the door, don't start bad mouthing the company to their clients and competition. Don't burn bridges if you want to work in this field in the future. It could come back to bite you on the can. If anything, be as nice about the situation as possible. Kill them with kindness.
- Don't wreck the place
If they are nice enough to let you clean out your desk and grab some documents off the computer, don't damage company property. Just grab your personal items, email all important contacts to your personal account (you really should have done that weekly) and leave the place like you are just going away for the weekend. Stay calm and quietly say goodbye to friends and coworkers.
- Don't seek vengeance
Waiting for your boss outside his home, threatening ex-coworkers or their family or just returning to the workplace with the intent to harm are all bad ideas. It's just a job. It's not worth losing your life or taking the life of another. Things are never as bad as they seem.